Self -Care(Less)

Often times as women we put ourselves last. It's so easy to neglect our own personal need for happiness and joy. Weather u are a mom, wife, or daughter we spend a lot of our energy pleasing others. As we should! However it is important that we make an effort at our own personal joy and simple pleasures. If it's taking time alone with tea or coffee to just allow your thoughts to be your own, that is a step! Their are simple ways to allow yourself to be loved and cared for. For example Flowers.. I used to wait for special occasions to be rewarded by them. Because they bring me so much joy I purchase them from the grocery stores, as I shop consciously for my family. When I get home I enjoy arranging them and placing them as a reminder to also care for myself. It's a small enough gesture that's makes me a more pleasant wife/mom. No longer should we be careless to ourselves. ✨